Wednesday, March 21, 2018

The Guiding Light

Just as the flower needs the earth,
sun, and water to survive,
children also have essential needs.

They need our love, support,
and positive encouragement.

And just as the flower
reaches for the sunlight,
children look up to us for guidance.

They need us to be 
the light in their lives.



Sunday, February 25, 2018

Divine Love

The Beautiful Human
believes in a Divine Love.

It is unconditional,
transformational,
and inspirational.

It is inside us
and all around us.

If we stumble,
it offers us a gentle hand.

If we are feeling down,
it lifts our spirits.

It speaks
to us all the time.

It understands
the language of our hearts.

I give thanks
to this Divine Presence.

I spread
its message of love
all around.

The Beautiful Human
walks their path in love.




Sunday, September 17, 2017

The Honest Customer



A few days ago, I was graced by a beautiful act of honesty.

The customer informed me that she accidently left my place of employment without paying for her milk. The lady handed me a $10 bill, and told me to please charge her for the item. 

I let the customer know that I greatly appreciated her honesty.  She could have easily taken the item and no one would have noticed.  However, this kind soul chose to do the right thing.  She knew that it was the wrong to take without paying for it.

This honest woman showed her child, and the world, how a Beautiful Human acts.

Tuesday, September 5, 2017

Helping Those Affected by Hurricane Harvey



 
 
The Beautiful Human helps others.

Let's help our fellow brothers and sisters that were affected by Hurricane Harvey.

Help in any way that you can. 

Every little bit counts. 

Some may wish to help by sending a monetary donation.

Others may donate food, clothing, or provide shelter.

Some may send their prayers and comforting thoughts.

Others may donate their services to lend a helping hand.

Send your love.









Planting Positive Seeds in Our Children's Hearts

 
 The
Beautiful Human understands
that their children
are a beautiful
gift to the
world.
 
 
 Children
want to be
seen, heard,
valued,
respected,
and
loved.
 
  Children
are
teachers,
too.
 
 
 
 
 Planting Positive Seeds
In order to transform our world, it starts with our children.  They are our future--our hope for humanity.  It is time to see them as a special gift, not as a nuisance. 
 
Children want to be seen, heard, valued, respected, and loved.  The worst thing we can do to our children is to ignore them.  We are in a sense telling them they don't matter.  And, if we harm children with our words and actions, we are only teaching them how to hurt others. 
 
Just as a flower needs the right elements to blossom and thrive, a child is no different: 
 
  • Give your child your undivided attention
  • Listen to your child
  • Value and treat them with respect
  • Shower them with love
  • Be a positive role model
  • Teach your child about the importance of service to others
  • Teach them to have positive character, such as being kind, helpful, compassionate,  etc.
  • Be there for your child
  • Participate in activities together
  • Inspire and empower your child
  • Be supportive and encouraging
  • Educate each other
 
Rice experiment by Dr. Emoto that teaches about the dangers of ignoring our children:
 
 



Tuesday, August 22, 2017

Treating Others With Fairness

 
The Beautiful Human believes in fairness.

Whether we are aware or not, we all want to be treated fairly.  We know it doesn't feel good when certain people get special treatment, while others do not.  If parents favor one child over the other, they are causing harm to both children.  The favored child feels more special; the less favored child feels unimportant.  Over time, the favored child may grow up feeling entitled, while the unfavored child has to deal with a lack of self-worth and self-esteem.

In the workplace, employees want to be treated fairly.  High employee turnover, low morale, and poor job performance may be the result of unfair treatment by management.  Imagine for a moment, there are two employees: One is constantly calling out sick and is late to work everyday, while the other employee is always on-time and has only missed 3 days in 7 years.  However, the boss rarely says anything to the employee that is always late and absent from work frequently.  Instead, he yells at the reliable employee that normally shows up to work on-time, but came into work, once, 5 minutes late.  Unfortunately, this is a common example that happens far too often in the workplace.  The wise employer would treat all of his employees fairly.  This would equate to greater job performance, increased morale, and decreased employee turnover.
 
Fairness is something that needs to be consistently exercised in our justice system.  People of color face stricter prison sentences than whites.  Also, individuals that are famous or wealthy often receive more lenient sentences than others that commit a similar crime.  The color of someone's skin, their celebrity status, or amount of wealth should not play a role in sentencing.

There needs to be more fairness in our education system.  Wealthier areas typically receive more school funding than poorer areas.  Is it fair that a child that comes from an affluent family can receive a better education than a child from a lower income family?  All children, regardless of their family's financial status, should receive the best education possible.

Believe it or not, fairness is valued in the animal kingdom, as well.  In a Fairness Study,  two Capuchin monkeys participated in an experiment.  When the monkeys were both rewarded with a cucumber, they were fine.  However, when the monkey on the right was given a grape (the preferred food), the monkey on the left reacted negatively, throwing the cucumber at the person conducting the experiment.  The experiment showed that Capuchins want to be rewarded fairly. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lKhAd0Tyny0

The experiment teaches us that fairness is something that we should all embrace; unfair treatment should not be tolerated or accepted.

 
 







Sunday, August 13, 2017

Teaching Love, Not Hate

 

The Beautiful Human believes in teaching their children to love one another.

"Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that."  ~Martin Luther King Jr.

Hatred is not the answer.  Nothing good can come from it.  Hatred poisons the mind and divides us.  We only have to look at human history to see how destructive hatred can be: During World War II, the Nazis wanted to exterminate all the Jewish people.  In the United States, there was an attempt to wipe out all the Native Americans.  Recently, in Charlottesville, Virginia, strong hatred by white supremacists caused an act of terrorism.  A young man with the intention to hurt and kill, drove his car into a crowd, causing death and injury.

What can cause a fellow human to want to harm and kill another?  Only an un-awakened brainwashed person would purposely want to do that.  We are not born to hate.  Hatred is something that is taught and learned.

In truth, we are spiritual beings having a human experience.  Everything is interconnected.  What we do to others, we do to ourselves, and what we fail to do for others, we fail to do for ourselves.  We are only hurting our own spiritual growth and development if we hurt another. 

Love is the remedy that we are looking for.  It connects and unites us.  Love is the candle in our hearts that lights up the world.

The Beautiful Human connects to the unconditional love within.



Both art images taken from Leslie Marie Wheeler's "Beautiful Children's Positive Character Coloring Book, available on Amazon and Create Space.